My name is Emily Johnson, 29 years old, and I am the mother of a 4-year-old boy named Ethan. I have been married to my husband, Jason Miller, for five years. We live independently, so I never had to endure the hardships of living with in-laws, and for that, I always felt lucky. Jason seemed perfect in so many ways: his looks, his career, his personality—all of it satisfied me. There was only one thing that always bothered me: he was addicted to playing video games.
Before Ethan was born, I didn’t mind it too much. Jason would play games while I did the housework, went grocery shopping, or occasionally watched TV alone. I thought every man needed a hobby, as long as it didn’t involve drinking or cheating. I could accept his gaming. But everything changed after Ethan came into the world.
From the day he was born, Jason became a completely different person. Every time I returned home from work, instead of asking about my day or playing with Ethan, he would be glued to his laptop or phone, lost in online matches. There were even times when Ethan had a high fever, and I had to care for him alone while Jason continued staring at the screen. I cried so many times, exhausted and frustrated. At first, I confronted him, but eventually, I became silent, retreating into myself.
My frustration boiled over when I discovered Jason wasn’t just playing games. He had made friends with several girls online and messaged them through social media apps like Zalo and Facebook. I was jealous and confronted him, but he got angry:
“Emily, why don’t you trust me?”
I tried to stay calm:
“You can play games, but don’t get close to these girls. Don’t let this affect our family.”
He replied, “You don’t let me relax. I need friends and games to unwind.”
Arguments like these became frequent and tense. I kept thinking, “I can ignore it, as long as he still loves me and cares about our family.” But Jason didn’t change, and I began to feel like I was living with a stranger.
Then it happened, on what seemed like an ordinary day. I had taken Ethan to visit my parents for three days. When we returned, I walked into the kitchen and noticed a strange bottle of soda in the fridge, half-drunk. What made me freeze was the lipstick mark on the rim. My heart raced. Horrible thoughts flooded my mind: had Jason brought other women home while I was away?
I secretly checked his phone. The messages, chat history, and game notifications confirmed it: while I was visiting my parents, Jason had invited friends over to play games… and all three of them were women. I sat down, stunned, utterly disappointed.
I didn’t confront Jason immediately, just observed quietly. When I finally did, he said,
“I only invited them to play games, nothing else.”
Could anyone believe that? Adults, men and women, coming to someone’s house just to play games and do nothing else? I felt completely betrayed, as if I had been deceived for years.
The next days were unbearable. I couldn’t eat, couldn’t sleep. Every time I looked at Jason, I saw only deceit, only the person I had once trusted slipping away. Ethan asked,
“Mom, where’s dad?”
All I could do was hug him, tears falling. I told myself I had to be strong. I couldn’t let my son grow up in a household where his mother lived in constant disappointment.
I started consulting a lawyer to prepare for a divorce. I read every clause, considered property division, custody arrangements. Every step weighed heavily on me, but I knew I had to do this to protect Ethan and myself.
One evening, when Jason came home from work, I spoke firmly:
“Jason, we cannot continue like this. I want a divorce.”
He froze, then fell to his knees, crying:
“Emily, please don’t leave me. I’ll change, I promise!”
But I hugged Ethan and left, returning to my parents’ house. From that day, Jason begged and pleaded with both me and my parents. I had no proof he was cheating. But my trust was gone. I realized that I needed a decisive action to protect my child and myself.
In the days that followed, I focused entirely on Ethan. I took him to the park, read stories to him at night, cooked his favorite meals. I tried to make up for the affection he had missed from Jason. Every smile, every innocent word reminded me that I had made the right choice.
I also reflected on our early years. Back then, Jason was thoughtful, attentive, and caring. I had loved him for his patience, his humor, and the way he made me feel safe. But that man was gone. Now, all he cared about were screens and virtual victories. That truth hurt more than any shock.
One evening, after Ethan had gone to bed, I received a message from Jason:
“Emily, I know you’re hurting. But I really love you. Please give me a chance to make it right.”
I stared at the phone, feeling empty. I had already given him too many chances. I typed back:
“Jason, you are no longer the man I loved. We cannot continue.”
I knew he would cry, plead, beg. But I could no longer drown in disappointment. I had chosen Ethan, chosen myself, and chosen our future.
The day the divorce was finalized, I felt both emptiness and relief. No more arguments, no more worrying about him inviting women over, only Ethan and me, and a future I was determined to build.
Watching Ethan play in the yard, I smiled. I realized that the most important thing wasn’t holding onto someone unworthy but protecting my child’s happiness and keeping myself intact. Jason had lost me, but I had never lost Ethan or myself.
After the divorce, I started a new life. I joined morning yoga classes, reconnected with friends, and focused on my career. Each day, I felt stronger, more confident. Ethan was happier, no longer exposed to fights or unnecessary conflict.
Sometimes, I missed Jason, the early happy years, but I no longer resented him. I understood that not all love lasts and that not everyone we love deserves our trust. Life is about choices, and I had chosen peace, safety for my son, and freedom for myself.
From that point on, every step Ethan and I took had purpose. Every day was a chance to build happiness, to prove that a mother could overcome pain, raise her child, and live a fulfilling life.
And so, my story is no longer one of betrayal or disappointment but a journey to reclaim myself, to find trust and true happiness. I have no regrets about divorcing Jason—it was the bravest decision I have ever made.