My mother-in-law, Linda, had always adored her daughter. And honestly, I didn’t mind.
But sometimes… it stung.
Last week, she spent $500 on luxury seafood — lobster, giant scallops, king crab legs — all to cook a lavish dinner because her precious daughter was coming over.
I’m the eldest daughter-in-law. I work full time, manage the household bills, and—ironically—when Linda gets sick, I’m the one who always pays for everything.
Still, I bit my tongue.
If this made her happy, so be it.
But three days after that grand dinner, in the middle of the night, my husband shook me awake.
“Mom’s not breathing right. We need to get her to the hospital — now!”
We rushed her into the ER. Nurses swarmed around her, machines beeped, and her face was pale as chalk. I stood frozen, clutching my purse, my heart thundering in my chest.
After what felt like hours, the doctor finally approached us.
“Are you her primary caregiver?” he asked.
My husband gestured toward me. “My wife handles her medical files.”
The doctor nodded. “We found something important.”
My stomach dropped.
I braced for the worst.
But nothing… absolutely nothing… prepared us for what he said next.
**“Your mother didn’t collapse from the seafood.
She collapsed from severe stress — emotional exhaustion.”**
I blinked. “Stress? From what?”
The doctor sighed. “She’s been hiding it, but her blood pressure has been climbing dangerously for months. Something has been weighing heavily on her.”
My husband and I exchanged confused looks.
“She kept repeating something before she passed out,” the doctor continued.
“Something about guilt. Something about money. And something about… you.”
He looked directly at me.
“She said she felt ashamed because you’ve been carrying the burden, not her daughter. She said she wanted to give one last extravagant dinner… because she felt she had failed you.”
My breath caught.
My mother-in-law — the woman who always favored her daughter — had collapsed… not because she overate… but because she had been drowning in guilt all along.
The doctor added softly:
“Her condition is stable now, but she kept saying one thing before she fell unconscious:
‘Tell her I’m sorry. I should’ve appreciated her when I had the chance.’”
Tears stung my eyes.
For twelve years, I had believed she didn’t care. That she took me for granted. That she only loved her daughter.
But in truth…
she had been breaking under the weight of her own regret.
When she woke up the next morning, her first words were:
“Did the doctor tell you?”
I nodded.
Linda’s eyes filled with tears. “I should’ve thanked you sooner. I’m sorry you had to carry the load I put on you.”
For the first time ever…
she reached for my hand.
And for the first time…
I took it.